Porn and the old and young man! I was once asked by one of my disciples why do old men look at porn? Aren’t they ashamed at themselves? I asked her why she was asking such a question? She answered that one day she was going through her father in laws computer history and she came to know of his visiting porn sites almost everyday! And this man had so many health issues!!!
Her alarmed expression was talking about a terrible crime and violation of something sacred.
I told her its but natural to expect her to sound surprised and him to do such a thing! Why was she thinking that he wouldn’t do such a thing, was my question to her?
I am sure many such acts happen almost everywhere. What made her think that he being old should not indulge in such behavior and even if he was physically sick?
The hypocritical nature of human beings can be seen here. They have expectations that once a person becomes old that person is junk or useless piece of machinery! The idea of the expiration of libido in old people is a myth. On the contrary look at the newspapers today and you will find almost all the old people are having cases against them for sexual favors tried! The great singer icon, the world bank person, the presidents of great nations, the police chiefs, the old politicos, the head of religious institutions, the upholders of civil rights for the women and much more of such people are fighting the press, courts and trying to absolve themselves of such behaviors! They have indulged in it since time immemorial. So why is the world surprised?
It is mentioned in the Gospel Of Philip(60,34-61,12) that the first sin was of adultery and the second sin was of murder! Why was the serpent not expected to do anything when he saw the naked body of Eve? Ask yourself, aren’t you thinking of the highest impossibility to believe that this wont happen? It would surely happen that way! That act is the highest possibility for anyone!
So lets stop being prudes and think that the old or young turds are not allowed to see such stuff. They will anyway watch it, experience it and rob it too.
So what was my advise to my disciple in that case? I told her to let it be and not bother about it at all. I told her to stay safe herself and not go near him even if he is like a father figure. Then the shocking thing that I told her is to stop acting innocent in life! Wasn’t she doing the same in her life? Hasn’t she too indulged in the same acts right from her youth? There is no age bar for such things. It’s the mind which throws the impossibility of such acts perpetration by our ideal persons! Be it father, brother, husband, grand father, or whosoever! Stop acting surprised or aghast since its a natural tendency of every human being to do this misdemeanor. Even woman cannot be absolved from this act since they too do the same. Just don’t blame the serpent for the act! It’s a two way act. You can call it whatever you want. You can throw a lot of arguments and counter arguments still I will not discount the part played by human nature. All stand condemned right from the beginning of time. If you don’t like it then why not stay out of it and think of yourself as innocent beings? Anyway you fell from the heavens or you had immaculate birth, I guess. Hence you are acting in such a way. Remember every human birth is through this same indulgent act. So stop being silly and change your ways of thinking like an ostrich!
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